How to attract a former?
All people dream of love. Someone carefully conceals their feelings, while others, on the contrary, speak about them openly. There are single people who have never loved, but dream about it.
And now, when the happy season has come: love in the heart, firm masculine embraces, butterflies in the abdomen. It would seem that there is no limit to happiness, and nothing can stop it. But every day you seem to be moving away, from each other more and more, and there comes a time when he leaves. I do not want to believe in this and admit that you partially destroyed your relationship. Love of man and woman is a union of two people. And all the mistakes, the joys are divided into two. You also do not want to believe that he will not return. And in all ways, try to get it back.
How to attract a former - a difficult question. First you need to understand: why do you need it? Remember both the pros and cons. With a sober mind, and not with the heart, decide: Is it really love or affection, selfishness? After all, love never requires anything in return, it grants freedom and choice. You can attract a former guy, but no one gives a guarantee that he will not go away again and break your heart.
How to attract the attention of the former - to stoplook through rose-colored glasses. Understand that you will have to accept his shortcomings. It is important to know that people do not change. And if you think that you can influence it somehow, it's a fairy tale. It is unlikely that a person will change until he himself wants to.
How to draw a former guy: actions
- Work on appearance and not only. He must see you irresistible: with a new hairstyle, makeup, stylishly dressed, and not choked in tears. Then he decides that he lost a lot.
- A chance meeting. You should get closer to the former. It is not necessary, of course, to guard it under the windows. But to go on the birthday of your mutual friend is worth it. You need to become a part of his life.
- Be fun. This is useful for not only health. The former will notice that you do not experience at all because of the gap, but live a full life, which will certainly become interesting for him and will touch his self-esteem.
- Communicate more. Start to communicate with him. Exclusively, as friends. Do this not often, keeping the fish on the hook. Do not talk to him about relationships. It will frighten him.
Never go back to the pastconversations. We need to move on. If you managed to reach the level of communication, then you should show him that he cares about you. It is worth taking some action, but it is unnecessary to go too far.
- Effective way. This is energy dependence. You can believe it or not, but it's true. I checked this on myself, so I want to share it with you. The world is tied up with energies. When you meet with a man, enter into an intimate relationship with him. You become dependent on him, and he from you. And, even if you part, you continue to feed it with your energy on a subconscious level: these are your dreams, talking about it, focusing on this object and everything connected with it. Thanks to you, the man is moving along the career ladder and does not remember you. But here's your advice: switch your energy to yourself, and it will not take a month for the former to call you. Write and offer to meet. It is necessary to have a great will and endurance to do this. This will help you in this meditation, the present moment and the workload.
- Magic - the Internet is full of offers of help. But I would not advise you to contact the magicians. This applies to spells. They do not carry in themselves anything except zombies and can be reflected negatively on your later life.
If a person is your destiny, he is compulsorywill return at the right time. No matter how hard it was, sometimes, we do not know why the Lord protects us. We can only realize this after a while. Life is given to us, to learn how to love in real life, without demanding anything in return.